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Al-Anon, Alateen, alcoholism, help, the Mommy, the Night Owl | March 18, 2014

Very Important Post

This is a story of strength and hope.  If you’ve been reading this blog for a while then you know my Mom died over 10 years ago.  Hopefully, you also know I adored her.  She was my best friend and I miss her everyday.

 

It is hard for me to write this next part because I wouldn’t want her or anyone anywhere to ever feel shame or embarrassment of any kind, not for one split second.  My Mom had a drinking problem and my life has been greatly affected by the family disease of alcoholism.  I’d like to talk openly about this to hopefully bring about good feelings and to share the thing that changed my life and possibly saved it.

 

I don’t know when my Mom’s drinking problem began, she was very good at hiding it.  I know the worst began when I was in high school.  My parents divorced when I was in elementary and they had joint custody.  My sister and I would live with my Dad one week, then my Mom the next week and so on until we went to college and this worked great for us.  However, when my Mom’s problem became obvious we lived with our Dad.  Strangely, (I think) her drinking problem was obvious to outsiders before it was to us, it was our normal.  When my Mom was acting strange or even crazy or having a blow-up, I kind of just wished it away and hoped for a better tomorrow.  Then when tomorrow came I even questioned if things were real or made up in my head.  The problem was only obvious to me when I found empirical evidence.  For example, empty half-gallon containers of vodka hidden under the guest bedroom bed, empty beer cans hidden behind the TV and while I was riding bikes with my friends in the neighborhood, we saw my Mom driving around, windows down, listening to music and… passionately drinking.  That’s when we went to live full time with our Dad and my Mom went to rehab.  I’m sharing these details for a teen like me, so he or she may know exactly what a problem looks like and so they don’t have to feel all alone.

After my Mom went to rehab twice and was sober we wanted to live with her part-time again.  When she was healthy she was a great mom and we wanted to be with her.  So my Dad made a deal with us.  If we were going to live with her part of the time then we had to attend an Alateen meeting once a week.  Alateen is an anonymous group for teenagers whose lives have been affected by someone else’s drinking.  We agreed to go because it was the way to our Mom.  I had no idea Alateen was about to change my life and save my relationship with my Mom.  Once we found the right group for us, we went once a week for about 2 years.  First I learned simple things like, “don’t argue with someone who is drunk” – whoops!  and “don’t hide or throw out liquor, more is always available” –  double whoops!  Then I learned the good stuff.  During those 2 years I figured out I wasn’t alone in my pain and fear, I figured out how to survive living in the same house as the disease (because it’s not completely gone even if the drinking is) and somehow I figured out how to accept my Mom as she was and detach from her problem without anger.  All of that is a miracle to me.  I was happy, strong and hopeful and loved that time of my life and I owe it to Alateen, tell it to your neighbor!!!

J. Roe Photography

I have no idea how my Mom got as bad as she did, I think it was too painful for her to talk about or bring up in her seven years of recovery.  I know that she was kind, loving, fun, creative, talented and did her best.  My Aunt has said that my mom becoming an alcoholic was like Mother Teresa becoming an alcoholic.  Addiction is scary.  And after revisiting things and looking through pictures for this blog post, seeing her look at her children and hold us the same way I look at and hold mine, I can’t help but think it was out of her hands.  I’m sure she was overwhelmed and depressed, but I don’t even know if she tried to get help or if she was just lost.  To me, she was beautiful inside and out.

 

This past summer I finally realized the emotional impact of alcoholism from my childhood was at work in me in new ways with my new roles.  Before, I was the kid.  Now I am a wife and a parent with new fears, worries and reactions.  So I looked into Al-anon meeting times, found some during camp/school hours and decided to go.  I thought this was a low point, admitting I needed help like this again.  But then 10 minutes into the meeting, I realized it was VICTORY!  I’ve been going weekly and I feel a huge difference!   I know this is a family disease so I carry behaviors from my Mom that I don’t want to pass to my kids, so this is VICTORY for my whole family!!!

J. Roe Photography

I am so thankful to my Dad for having us first go to Alateen and for what it did for me as a teenager.  And now I am thankful for Al-Anon continuing to help me everyday.  My hope for this Very Important Post is that someone Google-ing Does my Mom or Dad have a drinking problem? or Is it normal…? finds this, reads it, realizes they’re not alone and then finds a meeting to go to today.  Victory!  If you have a friend in these shoes, please pass this post to them.

Here is a link to the Houston Al-Anon Alateen Family Groups and a link to the national Al-Anon Alateen Family Groups websites where you can find a meeting and more information.

This is said at the end of every Al-Anon meeting, I always hear it loud and clear and it’s worth repeating:  “Whatever your problems there are those among us who have had them, too.  If you try to keep an open mind you will find help.  You will come to realize that there is no situation too difficult to be bettered and no unhappiness too great to be lessened.”

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  1. Leslieak says

    March 18, 2014 at 12:19 pm

    What a beautiful post. Thank you for sharing- I am sure that (sadly) most people's families have been affected by alcoholism, so this will come as very helpful.

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    • tell it to your neighbor! says

      March 20, 2014 at 2:23 am

      Thank you Leslie! I'm sure the statistics are very high and help helps!

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  2. AprilB says

    March 18, 2014 at 12:56 pm

    What a beautiful offering. May your victories continue and be too numerous to count.

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    • tell it to your neighbor! says

      March 20, 2014 at 2:24 am

      Amen, sister April, tell it to your neighbor! Thank you!

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  3. Mary says

    March 18, 2014 at 1:26 pm

    Thank you for your post. So brave of you. Alcoholism runs in my family and I appreciate you bringing it to light. Its great you are working on yourself by going to meetings.

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    • tell it to your neighbor! says

      March 20, 2014 at 2:26 am

      Thank you, Mary! Doing lots of work and I'll keep the lights on! Thanks for the encouragement!

      Reply
  4. Anonymous says

    March 18, 2014 at 1:45 pm

    Both of my parents are alcoholics. Sometimes people get the idea that alcoholics are drunks on the street who can't hold down a job. Not true. My parents were/are functioning alcoholics. My mom was a teacher. Got up every morning, went to work on time, did her job, went home and was passed out drunk by 9 pm. I'm an adult now and love my parents. I also have detached their illness from who they are. I can't change them and it's not my responsibility to. Thank you for sharing your story!

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    • tell it to your neighbor! says

      March 20, 2014 at 2:27 am

      You are amazing! Thank you for sharing YOUR story! This helps me!

      Reply
  5. Anonymous says

    March 18, 2014 at 2:01 pm

    The book Keeping Secrets by Suzanne Somers is a great book for adult children of alcoholics. ACA begin to examine their childhoods approximately when they reach age 30.

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    • tell it to your neighbor! says

      March 20, 2014 at 2:29 am

      Thank you so much for this comment. My sister and I have talked about this about 5 times since you wrote this, it is a revelation! Will look into the book.

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  6. Karen Stopnicki says

    March 18, 2014 at 2:10 pm

    Thank you so much for this lovely post. I cried as I read it. You are very inspirational.

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    • tell it to your neighbor! says

      March 20, 2014 at 2:31 am

      Thank you, Karen! I didn't mean to make you cry but I hope it was a good one and felt good to get it out. 🙂 I hope you're doing great and maybe I'll run into you out and about sometime soon!

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  7. Anonymous says

    March 18, 2014 at 2:44 pm

    Such an amazing post – I'm inspired by your vulnerability and strength. Blessings to you…Victory, Victory, Victory!!!!

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    • tell it to your neighbor! says

      March 20, 2014 at 2:32 am

      Victory is SWEET! Thank you!

      Reply
  8. 13:13 says

    March 18, 2014 at 3:15 pm

    OH, SNAM…. You continually amaze me. You're so beautiful inside and out. You ability to find the sunshine during the storm is outstanding. Thank you for sharing your wonderful blog. I love reading what both you and Carl post. <3

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    • tell it to your neighbor! says

      March 20, 2014 at 2:33 am

      Thank you so much SNAM for such a sweet and thoughtful comment!

      Reply
  9. 13:13 says

    March 18, 2014 at 3:16 pm

    OH, SNAM…. You continually amaze me. You're so beautiful inside and out. You ability to find the sunshine during the storm is outstanding. Thank you for sharing your wonderful blog. I love reading what both you and Carl post. <3

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  10. mamacita says

    March 18, 2014 at 10:49 pm

    What a beautiful testimony to your mom. I know I often feel like I fall short of what my kids might need or want in a mom. I'm always so glad to be reassured that I am loved and needed anyway.

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    • tell it to your neighbor! says

      March 20, 2014 at 2:49 am

      Thank you, mamacita! Have you seen the video, "A New Perspective For Moms"? It was on the huffington post. Find it if you haven't seen it, it's great!

      Reply
  11. KGolden says

    March 18, 2014 at 11:33 pm

    Xoxoxoxoxoxoxo

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    • tell it to your neighbor! says

      March 20, 2014 at 2:52 am

      Right back atchya!

      Reply
  12. Anonymous says

    March 19, 2014 at 12:59 am

    This is such a beautiful message and I feel compelled to post a comment. I have never commented on a blog or written a review for a product on the internet. Yet, my fingers are typing to you right now 😉 I'm not really sure what I want to say but thank you for sharing your experience, strength and hope! I know you have helped me tonight 😉
    I am the mom of three, healthy, young children, have a loving husband, live in a beautiful home and lead a fulfilled life. I owe this all to my soberiety and working the steps of AA. Alcoholism is a progressive disease. I also hid alcohol. I cannot explain how I became so sick. When my drinking got out of control it was like an outer body experience. I knew it was wrong but couldn't help it. I thought, woman like me aren't alcoholics. I have a college degree, my kids go to the best schools, I'm a good person….Yet, there I was drinking in my closet?! It was all so insane. When I walked into my first meeting, I knew I was in the right place just like you with Al Anon. I'm so proud of your mom and her 7 years of recovery. I hope she lead a life beyond her wildest dreams. Your wedding picture was touching. It's a scary, family disease but we can find peace and recover. One day at a time. God Bless you and your family. I'm so glad you carried the message!

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    • tell it to your neighbor! says

      March 20, 2014 at 3:03 am

      Thank you so much for being compelled to type! You have just helped me tremendously, I feel like I was just able to talk to my mom, hearing this from you. What insight you have offered! I would hug you if I could! Way to go with your recovery, your strength shines through this comment! Thank you for carrying the message of your story. We CAN find peace and recover, tell it to your neighbor!

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  13. Anonymous says

    March 19, 2014 at 2:02 am

    What beautiful, fantastic words Erica! Proud to know you, my friend! xoxo

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    • tell it to your neighbor! says

      March 20, 2014 at 8:54 pm

      I'm not sure who wrote this but thank you very much!

      Reply
  14. Lynn says

    March 19, 2014 at 2:20 am

    Thank you for sharing this post. I am sure your beautiful and wonderful mother is proud of you and your bravery.

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    • tell it to your neighbor! says

      March 20, 2014 at 8:56 pm

      Thank you very much, Lynn! I was worried what she'd think if she were here.

      Reply
  15. Anonymous says

    March 19, 2014 at 12:39 pm

    You are brave and strong and honorable for sharing this. Alateen and Al-Anon are incredible resources and I although I don't even know you, I am so proud of you! Thank you for being a voice for so many of us out there. xoxo

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    • tell it to your neighbor! says

      March 20, 2014 at 8:58 pm

      Incredible resources! And although I don't even know you either, I can tell you are kind! Thank you!

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  16. Anonymous says

    March 19, 2014 at 1:02 pm

    Thank you so much for a beautiful post. Alcoholism is hard on everyone and it has effected my family throughout many generations. Most recently with a beloved Uncle who like your Mom was almost like a Mother Teresa but it took hold and he lost his battle 9 yrs ago when he choose to end his own life. Which is a decision that I will never understand but I miss him dearly everyday. I think my Aunt and Cousins would very much appreciate your post and no matter how long its been Al-Anon is a group that can help us all.
    I know this is a difficult story to tell and I admire your courage and your ability to recognize that you want more or need help. I think that's the hardest part is asking for help. Thank you so much for sharing and I know you will help many with your honesty.

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    • tell it to your neighbor! says

      March 24, 2014 at 8:48 pm

      Thank you so much. I am so sorry about your Uncle, I can't imagine the pain. You're right, Alanon helps even if the person with a problem is gone. Thank you for sharing your story too! I hope people feel like asking for help is a victory after reading this post.

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  17. Denise Murtha says

    March 19, 2014 at 1:03 pm

    Great post! Very admiral of you.

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    • tell it to your neighbor! says

      March 20, 2014 at 9:01 pm

      Thank you Denise!

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  18. Anonymous says

    March 19, 2014 at 1:33 pm

    This is my 3rd day of not drinking my usual bottle of wine when I put my 3 little boys down. Reading this is like God speaking to me. I come from a family of alcolics and know that by the time my kids are in high school or even before your moms story could become mine. Being a mother of young children the little reward of one glass of wine at night when all were put to bed became 2 then 3 and now it's just out of control. Thanks for sharing this…I'm glad you posted!

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    • tell it to your neighbor! says

      March 20, 2014 at 9:04 pm

      You are amazing! I am proud of you for being aware and doing something about it. Way to go!!! Private message me on Facebook if you ever want to talk or my email is tellittoyourneighbor@gmail.com . 🙂

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  19. Lindsey B says

    March 19, 2014 at 2:23 pm

    Beautiful post. My sister is a herion addict, and my mom has found great comfort in the Nar-Anon groups. She keeps asking me to go with her…. You may have convinced me.

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    • tell it to your neighbor! says

      March 20, 2014 at 9:07 pm

      Go with her!!! It works! Thank you, Lindsey B.!

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  20. Anonymous says

    March 19, 2014 at 2:43 pm

    Last night I went to my first Al-Anon meeting. I grew up with my mom as an alcoholic and drug addict. She still struggles with drug addiction, and now one of my sisters does too. I had thought about going for a long time, but never went. I came home from the meeting last night a little angry that I was the one that needed to do this because of their choices that still affect my life after so many years. I hated sitting there, and having all the emotions and pain brought to the surface. I have become a master at keeping my emotions bottled up. However, it was comforting to be in a place where others can relate. Anyway, long story short, I didn't think I'd want to go to any more meetings until I read your post (I read your sister's blog, which brought me to your post). God knew what I needed to hear, and used your post just an hour after I arrived home from the meeting to speak to me. Because of this, I am going to give the meeting another try and keep trying to work through this. This is so true for me: "I finally realized the emotional impact of alcoholism from my childhood was at work in me in new ways with my new roles." Thank you for being open and sharing this. Pretty awesome how a post from a complete stranger can impact someone's life. Thank you.

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    • Anonymous says

      March 19, 2014 at 4:41 pm

      My husband is finally seeking help for alcoholism and I will go to my first Al-Anon meeting tomorrow. Just wanted to say thank you for sharing your thoughts. I too am angry that I had to shoulder so much during the addiction and now have to change my routine and put forth extra effort yet again because of his choices. I know that I should be willing to do whatever it takes to support him through recovery but I can't help feeling a bit selfish. Perhaps I'll find others at the meeting tomorrow who have been here and can help me sort through it. This post has given me some hope in that regard. The right message at the right time for sure … Best of luck!

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    • Anonymous says

      March 20, 2014 at 2:00 pm

      Thanks for sharing. I hope your first meeting goes well, and I'm so glad to hear that your husband is seeking help. Wishing you all the best.

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    • tell it to your neighbor! says

      March 21, 2014 at 3:58 am

      In response to the Anonymous comment at 9:43, Way to go you for going to a meeting on your own!!! First, they say every Al-anon group has a different personality so you may need to try up to six to find the right fit. Also they say "keep coming back, it works if you work it" for a reason, it's true. The beginning is hard, accepting it all. I think it's pretty awesome too that you read this post an hour after you got home and were feeling discouraged. Private message me on Facebook or email me at tellittoyourneighbor@gmail.com if you want to talk more. 🙂 Thank you for the comment and I'm proud of you for taking the first step, for yourself!

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    • tell it to your neighbor! says

      March 21, 2014 at 4:05 am

      In response to the Anonymous comment at 11:42, I feel you! I wish I could talk to you to see how it went. I hope you found people speaking the words of your same life comforting. Victory to you for going! Private message me on Facebook or email me at tellittoyourneighbor@gmail.com if you have questions about meetings or need to talk. 🙂

      Reply
  21. linda says

    March 19, 2014 at 6:23 pm

    Beautiful brave and well written.
    – Linda, ny

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    • tell it to your neighbor! says

      March 24, 2014 at 8:49 pm

      Linda, I love your comment, thank you for taking a second to write it. Thank you!

      Reply
  22. Yolonda J. Washington // DesignRoundup says

    March 19, 2014 at 9:28 pm

    This is a well written and nice story. There is always people who are suffering and it is stories like this that give them hope. Thanks for sharing!

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    • tell it to your neighbor! says

      March 24, 2014 at 8:50 pm

      True! We don't live in transparent houses. There is always HOPE! Thank you for your comment, Yolonda!

      Reply
  23. Lauren says

    March 20, 2014 at 1:10 am

    I love you. You are so brave.

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    • tell it to your neighbor! says

      March 24, 2014 at 8:50 pm

      Love you too, LaLa! Thank you!

      Reply
  24. Anonymous says

    March 20, 2014 at 2:56 am

    Such a well written, and heart-felt post. My MIL lived in a family with alcoholism and it ultimately killed her dad. Her mom also had a drinking problem. My MIL still to this day attends Al-Anon meetings because of what she grew up with. And I remember her being so worried about my husband and his brother when they were in college and making sure they did not drink too much. I don't think it ever leaves you, it becomes a part of you and you learn to find ways to heal from the hurt. Al-Anon is an amazing organization, especially for those who have been affected by love ones who have had drinking problems.

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    • tell it to your neighbor! says

      March 24, 2014 at 8:54 pm

      That is so true about it never leaving you, I know that will be me when my kids go to college. That's why I am going to continue to go to Al-anon for tools, prep and boundaries! Thank you for your comment and for sharing about your family.

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  25. Lori says

    March 22, 2014 at 12:50 am

    Than you for sharing and for being so very honest. My father and step father were both alcoholics. My father also died almost exactly 10 years ago and my step father 3 years ago. Luckily, my step father was able to see me get married and have two little boys, which changed our relationship in many ways. However, I was very angry with my father when he passed and that haunts me every day. Sadly, he still was not ready to be a father when he passed, but was more focused on destructive behaviors. I often wonder if things would have changed if he could have seen me get married and have kids, but unfortunately I will never know. I wouldn't wish this upon anyone, however he helped me realize what I wanted and needed in a family. I now have a wonderful husband that has seen me through all of the hard times and two boys that I will protect with my life. I have learned to love again like I never thought I could, but the best part is that I get to experience a father's love through my husband. I honestly never thought I would get to see or feel this love. I am blessed!

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  26. Anonymous says

    March 22, 2014 at 2:11 pm

    Thank you for this. I too have an alcoholic in the family and it often feels like I am alone. You are inspirational.

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  27. Anonymous says

    March 22, 2014 at 8:03 pm

    My mother is also an alcoholic. I'm curious, what did your mother die of? You mentioned she had been sober for 7 years

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  28. Margo says

    March 25, 2014 at 1:30 am

    This is a beautiful post – thank you for your honesty and the kind way you shared about your mom. I am convinced that telling the TRUTH is a really important way to help each other. I have a relative who is struggling with alcohol right now and I really feel helpless.

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  29. Anonymous says

    March 25, 2014 at 4:36 pm

    Oh my goodness….what a beautiful post. I wasn't expecting this. Someone just told me about your sister's fashion blog yesterday, so I was looking at it and linked to yours. My mother died 13 years ago (I was 29 when she died). She actually got into drugs in her later life, but her parents were alcoholics and she later married an alcoholic and then a drug addict, etc. I never related to these addictions…just always felt affected by hers. Your post deeply moved me. Thank you…

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  30. Kathy Olson says

    April 26, 2014 at 3:01 am

    Thank you so much for writing this!

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      • Welcome Home Baby
      • Southern Floral
      • Travel Edition: Punta Mita and The St. Regis
      • Jumping For Joy
      • Round Top Report Spring 2013
      • Best Slip Ever
      • The Headband Bowl
      • HC by JA at JCP
    • ►March(7)
      • Fresh Flowers for the Door
      • Master Plan and Inspiration
      • Gorgeous Easter Eggs
      • An Easter Basket For the Years
      • Free Advice
      • How To: Round Top, Part 2
      • How To: Round Top, Part 1
    • ►February(11)
      • Oscars Party
      • This Is Why I Love BBQ, Day 4
      • This Is Why I Love BBQ, Day 3
      • This Is Why I Love BBQ, Day 2
      • This Is Why I Love BBQ, Day 1
      • Be A Hero
      • Be Part of the eClub
      • Happy Valen-tine's Day
      • Classroom Valentines Plan
      • Good Night Sleep Chart
      • Service Series: Cut It Out!
    • ►January(10)
      • Fore The Love Of Golf
      • A Hug and a Kiss
      • Styling a Glass Cabinet
      • Service Series: Self-Serve Laminators
      • Coffee Cart at Home
      • Service Series: Same-Day Custom Notes
      • A Steamer Superb!
      • Wedding Inspiration
      • Thinking about Rodeo Tickets?
      • Obsessed with the COLOR BAR*
  • ►2012 (56)
    • ►December(7)
      • New Year's Solo Cup Chandelier
      • Merry Christmas, Neighbor!
      • Toddler Christmas Activity
      • Santa's Tool Giveaway - Winners!
      • A Tool for Santa (That's You) - GIVEAWAY!
      • Big Battery Operated Lights
      • The Tree Is Up and It Is Good!
    • ►November(8)
      • The Kids' Remote
      • Split Second Elf Ideas
      • Give Sleep
      • Christmas Tree Intervention
      • Snowman Wreath, Dip Baby Dip
      • Crash Course on Nutcracker
      • No Need to Drill
      • Diaper Rash Wipes
    • ►October(9)
      • Happy Halloween
      • Inspiration Board
      • Pedicure for Two
      • Art Full Circle
      • Elf on the Shelf or Skeleton in the Yard?
      • Guest Bedroom Design, Everything on Sale
      • A Rapunzel Party Without Getting Tangled
      • Birthday Morning Surprise
      • Plato del Niño
    • ►September(9)
      • Headed to Round Top
      • This Song Moved Me
      • Halloween Solo Cup Wreath
      • There's A Spider on Your Head!
      • Thirst Be Gone, Mosquitos Be Gone
      • One Dollar Tuesdays
      • The One and Only Scooter
      • Think Outside The Jewelry Box, Part 2
      • Labor Day Sale
    • ►August(11)
      • Free Gift Wrap
      • Cake For Breakfast
      • Travel Edition: La Jolla, CA
      • Mama's Got a Brand New Chair
      • Celebrate Good Times
      • Ice Ice Baby
      • Think Outside The Jewelry Box, Part 1
      • Hooked On Bundts
      • Black and White Trim
      • A Step Above the Fill-In Invitation
      • MadBox Update
    • ►July(10)
      • From Danger to New Hanger
      • Lunch Box Madness
      • Travel Edition: Jackson Hole, WY
      • Cottage Bathroom Renovation
      • Swedish Nursery
      • The Everlasting Bag
      • Game Changer, The Puddle Jumper
      • Paper Lantern Chandelier
      • Life, Liberty and The Pursuit of Happiness
      • Coca-Cola + Navy = Patio Redo
    • ►June(2)
      • Best Pool Bag Ever
      • American Flag Wreath

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    I’ve done a lot of shopping for clients recently, and I’ve been trying to remember to add the items we find that are winners and the ones I run across while shopping online in the “shop” ->” shop by category” folders for you guys to shop! Here are a few of the new favorite I’ve […]

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DOUBLE SIDED✌️gift wrap bundles, genius!! And DOUBLE SIDED✌️gift wrap bundles, genius!! And HOWDY stationery, yee-haw!! 🤠 (Swipe left to see it all.) Thank you, @spicepaperdesigns for the gift! I’m all set for camp care packages and letters, packing lists, Father’s Day and teacher thank you-s! 🎉 Neighbors, check out Becca’s goods, love the new double sided chunky stripe paper! 🌈
#shoplocalhouston #houstonstationery #spicepaperdesigns #boxwoodbreakfastclub #papergoods #custompapergoods #houstongraphicdesigner #paperaddict #giftwrap #titynparty
I took this photo to send to my sister @cstyleblog I took this photo to send to my sister @cstyleblog back in January while on vacation in Miami Beach because she styled my outfit and I felt 👌💁🏼‍♀️. But now I’m posting it to the internet because I got an email saying these favorite street leggings of mine are on sale only for today!!! (I love them and I sized up.) And now I have this whole exact outfit (every item is available and some items on sale) linked in the @liketoknow.it app, use my profile for a short cut to it 👉 @tellittoyourneighbor or find a link only to the leggings there, too! Thank you and have a good night! 😴 
 http://liketk.it/3d0gJ #liketkit #LTKfit #LTKtravel #LTKsalealert 
#shoplocalhouston @shoptheavenue #tityntravels #streetwear #streetstyle #ootdinspo #southbeachmiami #titynshops
These three companies are so extraordinary to me, These three companies are so extraordinary to me, for one they have supported me personally more than I’ve promoted them professionally! 💞 They’ve also each had a historic moment with me here at #TITYN, see below 👇!

But first, the photos (above) are from a #boxwoodbreakfastclub back in January. 😬 I get behind on things I want to devote a lot of time to, don’t we all?! 🤦🏼‍♀️ The event was an excellent media workshop with STREETE MEDIA at the Memorial Green LAM BESPOKE location. (Thanks @laurensmills for putting these three greats together! 🙏)

Now, what’s in it for you? I think just knowing about these 3 favorites of mine, checking out their Instagram accounts and keeping them in your back pocket for when you’re in need of their services! 

Here are their moment’s in @tellittoyourneighbor history 📰 !👇

1) @lambespoke was my very 1st monthly feature 2 years ago! She said yes to a new idea I had been hesitant to try and kicked it off with a successful start! 🤗 Cathy!

2) @streete_media gave me the skills and confidence to interview people on Instagram Live for the 1st time and twice more after it!  It was something I wanted to do but I thought I would “never” be able to do. She’s a media marketing idea generating gem! 🤗 Megan!

3) @tresmarket_foods is in my Top 3 most interacted with posts of all time! Our whole neighborhood and beyond was excited at the chance to win a happy hour with them! 🤗🤗 Julie and Jeannine!

I’m most of all happy to call all of these women friends, tell it to your neighbor! 

#houstonnetworking #mediatraining #videoproducer #houstoncatering #houstondesign #houstonproducer #houstonmedia #shophouston #houstonblogger
Love is resurrection and love is a trumpet sound. Love is resurrection and love is a trumpet sound. 🎺 There ain’t no grave gonna hold my body down.📣 @bethelmusic 

My first time to hear this 👆song with a lot of history including @johnnycash! Have you heard it?!

Thank you @chapelwoodumc and @thejohnstephens for an #Easter service outside (even if we weren’t in a pandemic) and for the introduction to this song! 

Love to you, neighbor! ♥️🎺

#aintnograve #eastersunday #heisrisen #houstonchurches #faith #donotbeafraid #takeasecondlook #linger
How do I get everyone to listen to last week’s e How do I get everyone to listen to last week’s episode of Connecting With @drkimswales? “ADHD with Dr. Ned Hallowell.” Coaches, parents, teachers, managers... well I think we are all working with or being mystified/maybe frustrated by someone with ADD. Or the term ADHD has been so misleading that it’s prevented you from seeking help for yourself or a child. 🙋🏼‍♀️ In a nutshell the episode clears up the confusion, explains the advancements and Dr. Swales asks THE question that has kept me up at night and made me question. Her guest, @dr_hallowell, is the author of the book I recommended last summer. Now he’s written another relatable book with the latest science. I’m only on the intro and it’s opened my eyes again! The more I learn about ADD, the more relief I feel and it makes me think a lot about my first job out of college (swipe left), a job I loved and a job I had to work a ton of overtime for because of a condition I didn’t know I have. I’m curious about my billable hours compared to my coworkers or on second thought, I don’t think I could handle that comparison. And I may have tweaked my hours to appear “normal” so a comparison might not even be accurate! But I would like to speak up for myself and others today for my experience back then. A co-worker once said to me, “Most of the time I think you’re really smart but sometimes I feel like you’re in elementary school.” 😳 I think this person was trying to be funny but it came out horribly. In that moment I knew they were just experiencing ME and the way I operate, it’s how I’ve always been.  Sometimes there’s so much to focus on and take in all at once that I look frozen or I get distracted. Luckily, because of the temperament I was born with and the way I was raised, I had no doubt I was smart. I also knew this was why my Mom tried to protect me by telling me to keep my pace to myself.🤫 By the way, I knew my Mom’s suggestion wasn’t okay, it’s just how SHE was raised. Well, I’m hoping for a future with less of all of that and more of focusing on people’s strengths and understanding of ADHD. Take a listen to Episode 24 of Connecting With @drkimswales 👈, it helps and you will enjoy it! Thank you!
Howdy Neighbors! We are back from our trip to West Howdy Neighbors! We are back from our trip to West Texas and I am currently downloading our trip highlights on stories and saving them to highlights, too. If you’re interested in taking a trip to @historic_alpine_texas, Marfa, Big Bend and Fort Davis, I’m sharing our recommendations and lessons learned. In terms of pandemic/small town/national and state park travel, this was a last minute trip and I’m not good with reservations anyway but we made the best of it! We loved it, it was a grrrrreat trip! Check it out and tell us if you’ve taken this trip and loved it, too! 👇

@1909_vaquero @abbeybranch #westtexas #pradamarfa #alpinetexas #marfatexas #bigbendnationalpark #davismountains #thedesk #sculpture #artinstallation #duststorm #houstondesigner #texasroadtrip #pandemictravel #tityntravels

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